Dear Thelma: My husband wants his family… and his mistress too

My husband, a retired government servant, and I have been married for 25 years. We have a son studying overseas.

We were happy until five years ago, when he met a group of old friends. Among them was B, an unmarried woman.

When all of us were young and single, we used to go out in a group. Sometimes, B would come along but she would only talk to the men in the group. We heard that she even solicited money from the men to go abroad to sit for a professional exam that she could have easily taken locally.